Group Guidelines



  • We are here to support one another not “fix” one another. We are primarily listeners and we aren’t a replacement for therapy.
  • Keep our sharing on our own thoughts and feelings based on our own experiences.
  • Limit sharing to 3-5 minutes.
  • Confidentiality is a basic requirement. What’s shared in the small group stays in the small group. The only exception is if someone threatens to injure themselves or someone else.
  • If you happen to wear 2 hats in the adoption equation, (adoptive parent, birth parent AND an adoptee) we ask you wear your adoptee “hat” while sharing in the group.
  • There is NO crosstalk. Crosstalk is when two or more individuals engage in conversation excluding all others. Each person is free to express his/her feelings without interruption.
  • Please be courteous when someone is sharing, refrain from cell phone use unless it’s an emergency.
  • Adoptees Connect respects attendees’ spiritual beliefs, but please understand not everyone shares the same beliefs. All are welcome here.
  • Please refrain from soliciting outside products and agendas inside the group.